tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1508570924517517145.post5471393477036741671..comments2023-09-19T08:19:27.286-04:00Comments on Finding a Way Out of IF: Broken Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09557861103469077524noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1508570924517517145.post-83181575626833611002013-11-10T18:47:16.725-05:002013-11-10T18:47:16.725-05:00I am so sorry you are in this place right now. I d...I am so sorry you are in this place right now. I discovered the same thing about my friends during this whole process. I got so little support from the friends that I told, I ended up just not telling people. It makes people uncomfortable so they ignore the problem and we are left feeling alone.<br />I hope you are able to find some support somewhere. Your blog friends are, of course, always here for you. Sending a big virtual hug.JenShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00056681492831041470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1508570924517517145.post-43152878614557723892013-11-08T10:53:38.130-05:002013-11-08T10:53:38.130-05:00I need a hug. Thank you. I've reached out to...I need a hug. Thank you. I've reached out to a support group again. (I tried once but the group wasn't really functioning). You've been through a lot too. Hugs back at 'cha. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09557861103469077524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1508570924517517145.post-21924614570527669262013-11-08T10:52:21.153-05:002013-11-08T10:52:21.153-05:00I've been thinking of counselling. I don'...I've been thinking of counselling. I don't have coverage. I went to see someone twice last year after the miscarriages. I have a hard time even being "real" with my counsellor. I've been thinking of going back, but D didn't think it helped me much. I've reached out to a peer support group. Maybe that might be a better fit. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09557861103469077524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1508570924517517145.post-17582077668163878652013-11-08T10:50:32.212-05:002013-11-08T10:50:32.212-05:00Even though I know, that social workers are suppos...Even though I know, that social workers are supposed to perhaps see it as a good thing that you have got counselling and help for a problem you are experiencing. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09557861103469077524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1508570924517517145.post-66283457954254585842013-11-08T10:49:54.422-05:002013-11-08T10:49:54.422-05:00That is helpful, and if I talk to my doctor, I wil...That is helpful, and if I talk to my doctor, I will definitely ask about Prozac. <br /><br />I think the other thing holding me back was that on my adoption paperwork it asked if we were taking antidepressants. I feel like it's a strike against us. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09557861103469077524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1508570924517517145.post-87809690394676503192013-11-08T10:48:42.152-05:002013-11-08T10:48:42.152-05:00Thank you, I didn't know that and it does ease...Thank you, I didn't know that and it does ease some of my anxiety about antidepressants. I can't help but feel like this is situational depression and if I could just get and stay pregnant everything would all be ok. Having said that, if I went on antidepressants years ago, I probably would be coping with everything much better right now. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09557861103469077524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1508570924517517145.post-1253509411639426582013-11-07T21:13:33.682-05:002013-11-07T21:13:33.682-05:00I wish I could come through the computer and give ...I wish I could come through the computer and give you a hug and tell you that you DO have friends and that we DO care about you, even if we're all just online and we've never met in real life. It is so awful to read that you're going through this and don't really feel like you have anyone to turn to. Is there a Resolve support group in your area? We don't have them in Canada but I've heard really good things. You need support and someone to talk to so you can vent everything. I wish there was something I could do to help.Aramishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12275274008426941898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1508570924517517145.post-84394615581564810732013-11-07T16:27:11.916-05:002013-11-07T16:27:11.916-05:00I'm sorry that you're struggling so much a...I'm sorry that you're struggling so much and that your support system is not very supportive. I think that IF can be very isolating and as time wears on and the bad news piles up, people can't relate. They want you to move on so they won't feel uncomfortable. Hopefully it will get better--hopefully the DE cycle will work and all this sorrow will turn to joy. In the meantime, maybe counseling? Does your job have a free hotline you can call? Just even to have someone to talk to, to ease the burden of keeping everything to yourself. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1508570924517517145.post-62799380641442748742013-11-07T15:44:38.395-05:002013-11-07T15:44:38.395-05:00Thinking about and praying for you. Depression is ...Thinking about and praying for you. Depression is so hard, especially when both people in the relationship are suffering.<br /><br />If it helps, my previous work in pharmacy revealed that Pro.Zac is the safest anti-depressant for pregnancy.dspencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03028178955338687090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1508570924517517145.post-22104923436560708272013-11-07T12:37:44.406-05:002013-11-07T12:37:44.406-05:00Gosh, I'm so sorry you're in this place. :...Gosh, I'm so sorry you're in this place. :( Depression is so tough. I didn't want to go back on antidepressants because of trying to get pregnant. My RE advised me to seek some care, though. It's important to take care of yourself, too. You can wean off them when you get pregnant. They don't take six weeks to kick in. With the depression, they can start to make a difference within the first two weeks, I'd say.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com