tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1508570924517517145.post8744014497074775695..comments2023-09-19T08:19:27.286-04:00Comments on Finding a Way Out of IF: Waiting for the phone call Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09557861103469077524noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1508570924517517145.post-75983165172293842782012-12-22T23:23:20.047-05:002012-12-22T23:23:20.047-05:00So bittersweet. But I think because she's been...So bittersweet. But I think because she's been there, she would understand.<br /><br />Visiting from ICLW.Azarahttp://inthetesseract.blogspot.canoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1508570924517517145.post-88768617660232179332012-12-22T17:51:25.409-05:002012-12-22T17:51:25.409-05:00Thank you Rochelle. I feel like I've become p...Thank you Rochelle. I feel like I've become professional at hiding my true IF feelings in front of my friends. So much so that most of them (especially the non-IFers) have no clue. <br /><br />I talked to a therapist once and she said I didn't need to do that, to protect people. But I don't know how not to. It's a bit of a vicious circle because then I end up without the support I need because everyone things things are ok. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09557861103469077524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1508570924517517145.post-85496578475596123212012-12-22T16:49:39.222-05:002012-12-22T16:49:39.222-05:00I can usually tell when someone is about to tell m...I can usually tell when someone is about to tell me they're pregnant too. Maybe that's just an IF side effect. We've been doing this for 5 years too and the close friend I was pregnant with for a short time before my miscarriage just had her 3rd son a week ago, really hammering in just how long we've been at this. I think she would probably understand if your happy reaction also came tinged with sadness. <3 Best of luck. Rochellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09226024184305999010noreply@blogger.com