When the dramatic events unfolded I did my best to help smooth things over, or I just kept my mouth shut depending on the situation. I told my self "not my wedding" to avoid getting annoyed and all was well. It was a lot more fun that way.
PS) There is a small chance that this cycle could still get canceled on Friday when I have my last u/s and blood before I go to CO - please think positive thoughts for me on this! Although at this point with all of the flights booked for my sisters I think I'm going either way!