Showing posts with label IVF. Show all posts
Showing posts with label IVF. Show all posts

Wednesday, 26 June 2013

Calendar



Yay! We got our calendar from CCRM.

It has a tentative retrieval date of around July 6th or 7th.  Which seemed perfectly workable with the July 13th wedding  that we are both standing in, the one where D is the best man.  Upon closer examination, we learned that our retrieval date would likely be a bit later because the calendar only included stims for 10 days. 

I checked with the nurse to see if she thought I would stim for longer than average (because of my diminished ovarian reserve).  She said yes.  She said DOR people tend to stim for  15-17 days.   I asked her the longest she's ever seen anyone go for and she said 21 days. 

Counting out the days, that would make the retrieval/required sperm donation either the day of the wedding or the day before.  Not to mention that I am required to hang around for 24 hours because of the anesthesia.  

F*ck.

We thought about what would happen if I missed the wedding.  Sounds bad, yes, but there are 8 bridesmaids and only 5 groomsmen.  And the bride and I are not even remotely close.  The groom and I are friends, but I never expected to be asked to stand up for him.   That is a long story that I talked about here.    

They've been very demanding throughout the year long wedding process and let's just say it hasn't drawn any of us closer together.  Bridezilla is an accurate term to use.  We've just been going with the flow, gritting our teeth spending money on all of their parties etc,  doing what is asked of us, and mostly hoping for it to be over.   

D too has seen a different side of the groom throughout this year of wedding planning that he doesn't like.  I think overall this year has made us realize that after this, we don't have the desire to be close friends with them.   We've come out of this year just feeling used financially and emotionally by them.   We are in very different mental places and have very different priorities.  They are really immature about a lot of things. 

We really wanted to make this cycle work.  We've been in limbo basically since January, with cancelled cycles because of the cysts, and my grandfather's illness and death, and last month with the memorial day fiasco.  In so many ways we feel like we've been in limbo for the past five years with all of this crap.  And with these cysts, we honestly don't know if next month we'll be allowed to start a cycle. 

We thought about using frozen sperm instead of fresh, allowing him to fly out for the wedding, if he had to.   I didn't want to do that.  I feel like we are spending big money on this and I don't want to feel like we didn't do the best we could in all aspects.   Especially because this is probably our last chance.  There isn't an unlimited pool of money that we can throw at this.  I'm cranky, emotionally drained and I'm tired of feeling guilty if I have a glass of coffee or wine! 

Ultimately, we decided that regardless of how we are feeling about them right now, that it would be a really, really brutal thing if the best man didn't show up.  (I should mention that if this was a close friend we wouldn't even consider doing this to them, it's just that we are feeling very used by them, and this almost feels like one more way that we are taking a hit because of them).   I realize that this must sound like I'm a spoiled brat, but I'm just being honest.   And my friends, I need this little corner of the internet to do so so I don't make an impromptu speech at the wedding about how they are two of the most rude, selfish people that I know (jk - would never).   

And, in the end, we won't even tell them that we have made this choice for them.  

Hoping August is a good month for us.  At least one good thing will happen - this dreaded wedding will be over!  


PS)

Some random gossipy bits about the wedding:

1. This is groom's second wedding and they bride and ex-wife have the exact same first and second names!!! Seriously? What are the chances!

2. They have kicked out the maid of honour AND best man already.  D was the second choice, despite having known the groom for 17 years and the other best man having only been friend for less than a year!).    


Wednesday, 24 April 2013

Decisions and the waiting game



This is all my calendar today.   Not much on the go.  The most exciting thing was hoping for my period to come so I could find out if the cyst is gone.   There is no sign of it coming (usually I get the lovely advance notice of a week of spotting before hand).  Well that is, except yesterday's hefty dose of bitchiness directed at hubby.  He might have deserved that though, I don't know.

It was cold outside today so I spent the day grocery shopping and then making a couple of soups.  I'm thinking (hoping?) that this might be the last urge that I get to make some in a while.   Bring on the BBQ weather and food!

Hubby and I are still on different pages fertility-wise.  I didn't have the desire to write about it until now.  I was just letting it simmer for a while.   The short of it is that D wants to finish up with this round of IVF.  I feel that he is nearing the end of his IF rope and I'm trying to respect that.   He thinks it is my body that is preventing us from getting pregnant more than an embryo quality issue (ouch).   I think it's embryo quality issue, and so does the doctor.

If D can only go through this a few more times, I want to skip the OE IVF and move to DE.  He's going to be 37 soon and he's seeing the big 4-0 approaching.  I think for the first time he's feeling his biological clock ticking.

I know if I have a baby I won't regret how it came to us.  We've fought long and hard enough.  And I'm starting to wonder for what?

If OE IVF doesn't work this time around, D wants to move to traditional adoption.  I don't.  I can't explain why exactly, I just know I'm not fully there.   I want to try DE with donor sperm.

D doesn't really understand my desire to experience pregnancy.  He thinks adoption is just about the same thing.  This frustrates me.  I feel like after all that has been taken from us, I just want this one thing.   I want our baby to be welcomed into our family with the 9 months in utero that most other mothers get.  I want to control the prenatal environment.  I want to experience childbirth.

D says he needs the closure of doing this OE IVF.  He says we are too close to the finish line to quit now.  Not to mention that we have $5,000 of non-returnable Follistim just rotting away in our fridge.  He says that the money spent going after it ($25,000 for fun) will be on him (we have joint accounts, we're just talking about the guilt of spending it I suppose).  I would rather spend the rest on DE and some furniture (for a nursery!).

Something has else has happened.  The hardest part of this part of the journey lately doesn't seem to be pregnancy announcements and seeing swollen bellies anymore.  It's almost like I've become largely desensitized.   The hardest part now is that D and I don't agree on which way to proceed.

There doesn't seem to be a right path anymore.  Up until now we made the best choice together after considering the options.  While there have been many bumps in the road, one choice always seemed to stand out.   Not the case anymore folks.


Wednesday, 19 December 2012

Trust





During our preoperative consult, Dr. Dandruffbeard explicitly asked me if I trusted him.   He said that it seemed that I preferred the care of the other doctors in America, because I had chosen them for my care.  He said that there were many surgeons that could do the ligation for me in Canada besides him, if it was a trust issue.  He said I should have a surgeon that I trust.   He said this all in a very nice and respectful way.  However, it caught me a bit by surprise! In all of the specialists I've seen over the last five years, this has never come up before.

I told him that no, it wasn't a trust issue.  It is an opinion issue and a timely-care issue, but I didn't go into that.  I told him that geographically it made sense for us to proceed with the other doctor (which he understood).  Also, I reminded him that at the time the only option he gave to us was donor egg, from a known donor.   And since that for us was pretty much out of the question for us, we moved on.

It was his opinion, combined with Dr. Snowflake's that led us to choose embryo adoption.  He told me he was not interested in trying to get eggs from me because of the low probability of success (less than 5% chance).  He told me that twice. Almost 5 years ago, and more recently 3 years ago.

It's painful to think about all of that.  I wonder if he is going to be proven right after all of these years?  If we just stuck with his opinion, and chose other family building options would we have a family now and have avoided a lot of heartache?  Our savings would have certainly taken less of a beating.

I suppose, we've already proven him a little bit wrong.  We did do an IVF and made 11 eggs and 6 embryos, resulting in one pregnancy.  I'm hoping to completely prove him wrong with this IVF in Colorado.  

Later on, I visited his website.  At the bottom of his page was a quote "I thank my patients for their trust.  They know they can count on me 100%.  Interesting.

I'm hoping that maybe we can do the ligation after the IVF cycle.  I've left a message for the nurses to see what the doctor thinks of this idea.  This would allow me to be on a waiting list in Canada for the procedure, without wasting precious time.  Plus, I'm on all of these supplements and restrictions and I want to be finished with them sooner rather than later.   We will know for sure after my day 3 blood work is processed.  We need this before Dr. Schoolie will give his final blessing on any OE IVF cycle.

Update: Yeah - Because we are planning to do a frozen cycle with CCS, we are able to do the laproscopy later.  I'm excited about that news.  Now just awaiting the day 3 blood work.  Please, let it be ok.


Monday, 26 November 2012

He's IVF



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Friday, 23 November 2012

The missing piece




I left my professional career for a few reasons. The main ones were because a) I felt like it was sucking the life out of me, b) I wanted to be a stay at home mom, and c) I was convinced that I needed only some time and (ewww, I hate to admit this),  a little less stress to figure things out a.k.a. solve our infertility problem, become pregnant, give birth and live happily ever after, the end.

What started as a one-year leave of absence from my employment turned into a resignation and four years gone by.   I’ve cherished a lot of the time that I’ve had.  And I've been through some pretty rough stuff too, including coming this.close to losing my sister to a massive stroke and helping her rehabilitate.  I’ve been able to do some things and learn about myself in a way that I don’t think I could have, had I remained in the rat-race.  At my job I was work-alcoholic fueled by coffee, anxiety, and positive reinforcement.  It wasn’t a pretty combination.

I spent a portion the last four years going back to school.  It started as something to do and a strategy to keep my grey-matter from becoming mush.   A few courses turned into a few more, and the next thing I knew I had signed up for a full year of classes to complete a degree.  I’m tremendously grateful for the opportunity to learn just for the sake of learning.  I think it might just be one of the greatest luxuries in the world.  I love learning.  I just wish more of it stayed in my head!

One of the first courses I completed was also one of the most valuable and fascinating. It was a class in positive psychology.  We studied questions such as “what makes a happy life?”  The professor taught us that this question is probably the wrong one.  And eudaimonic wellbeing is really what we should be talking about. 

A person could think of it as happiness = pleasure, and eudaimonia = human flourishing.   Eudaimonia is arguably made up of several things.  One of which is having meaning in your life.  

(This website provides a detailed explanation if you are so inclined.  It’s a bit of a read, but it is definitely faster than taking a course in positive psychology!

I often question why I want to be a parent.  Sometimes I think that maybe it is just a biological need, and can’t be explained?  I wonder, if I am just trying to fill this “meaning-void” with a little one when it could be filled with something else? Like maybe a different career?  I wonder if parenting is going to live up to my expectations? I wonder about my marriage. Parenting can be stressful. Will D and I get along as well as we do now, or will we grow closer in our new roles?

D and I agree that our search for parenthood is tied closely with our search for meaning in this life. I strongly desire the full-circle life experience that only parenting is able to provide.  I want to grow in my view of the world by seeing it through the eyes of a child.  Sometimes when the IF road becomes really rough, I wonder if I could instead find meaning in another life pursuit to compensate for a life that is childfree?  If all of the time, effort and money were spent somewhere else, would I have a better sense of wellbeing?

As we debate important decisions about OE or DE in our upcoming journey, I can’t help but wonder if it is silly for us (personally) to be chasing a genetic connection to a child?  Is it going to change the amount of meaning we get from being parents?  Nope.  Will it bring us less pleasure? Doubt it.  

Maybe for us DE is a better choice, as it has a higher probability of making us parents (and sooner)?

The Journey, So Far...



I typed out a nice neat little index page with page numbers for Dr. Schoolie when I submitted all 250 pages of our medical reports.

Going through the process of organizing my records was a tedious and emotionally exhausting task.  Each portion brought up memories of how we felt at each turn.  It also made me feel frustrated that there wasn't a more efficient way to navigate through the difficult waters of IF.



May 2008
Semen analysis:  1.6 million
Normal pelvic ultrasound
Hormone levels tested but not on cycle day 3.
June 2008
Semen analysis: 1.6 million
Aug. 2008
D has bilateral testicular biopsy under the direction of urologist.  Findings: bilateral hydrocele and meiotic arrest.
D has infection after this procedure, and is treated twice with antibiotics (for two weeks each time). Up until 1.5 years after this procedure, D has infrequent “stabbing” pains in his testes.
Oct. 2008
Dr. Nada, Enocrinology consult, no findings referred to another endocrinologist.
Nov. 2008
Scrotal ultrasound: focal hypoechoic regions within the superomedial aspect of both testes measuring 1.2 and 1.4 cm.  Likely related to previous biopsies.  Bilateral small varicoceles are demonstrated.  Small right hydrocele.  3mm cyst on left epididymal head.
Dec. 2008

D- Endocrinology consult with second endocrinologist found no abnormal results.
CBC normal.
Jan. 2009
New clinic #2
Semen analysis. 0.6x10 6/ml
Feb. 2009
Semen analysis (washed), total motile count 4 million.
Day 3 FSH: 23.8 IU/L
Day 21 Progesterone: 48nmol/L
Genetic screening and other blood work (day 21 and other).
2nd opinion with Urologist.  His opinion was that the testicular biopsy was unnecessary, and that the results showed only a focal diagnosis.   No further recommendations.
Mar. 2009
Hysterosalpingogram: Right fallopian tube patent, left tube irregular, curved, tortuous and dilated, left tube appears blocked.  Antiverted, anteflexed uterus. Right ovary 2.5cm x 1.3cm, left 2cm x 1cm. Small irregularities in uterine lining.

Diagnosis: Premature ovarian failure, advised to consider donor programs.
April 2009
New Clinic: #3 Dr. Snowflake
June 2009
IVF cycle suggested to be changed to IUI.  Cycle cancelled: My sister had a massive stroke at age 28 (from an undetermined cause).
Sept. 2009
Day 3 FSH: 6.5 IU/L

Operative Hysteroscopy to remove small amount of scar tissue near embryo transfer site. 
Pathology Report: Endometrial curettings (1.0ml of hemorrahigic tissue and mucoid material): proliferative endometrium.
May 2010
Sonohystogram, results normal. (Dr. Snowflake).
Nov. 2010
FET #1: Transferred 1 donor embryo (from couple #1), rated “cleaved 4-6 cell”.
HCG <1.0
Feb. 2011
Adopted 6 blasts via Snowflakes
Created in 2005
April 2011
New clinic: USA, Dr. M Frankenstein
Semen analysis: Grade A, low count, borderline morphology.  Semen frozen (unused as of Oct/12).
Monitored for one natural cycle:
Doctor says follicles didn’t mature as expected.
Decided to proceed with adopted embryos.
Day 2 FSH:  19.6 mlU/ml
Follicle count: 7?
July 2011
FET #2: Donor embryos, 2 unrated blasts.  Embryologist says they are unrated because they were still collapsed 2-3 hours after they were thawed.
HCG <1.0
Sept. 2011
FET #3:  Donor embryos, 2 blasts 6BA & 5BB
 HCG <1.0

Nov. 2011
FET #4: Donor embryos, 2 blasts 4AA & 4BA,
HCG = 75, (6 days after transfer), 1547 (13 days after transfer).
Dec. 2011
Miscarriage confirmed at 8 weeks
Jan. 2012
D&C after incomplete natural miscarriage
Started 75mg DHEA/day
Mar. 2012
AMH tested: 0.42ng/ml
Day 3 FSH 17.5 mlU/ml
April 2012
IVF with ICSI (own eggs)

Medication:
· 40 units of Leuprolide on cycle days 3 and 4. 300 units of Gonal-f for 16 days, the last 8 days of stimulation 150 units of Menopur.
· See cycle sheet for other meds.
· 500mg Flagyl & Doxycycline for both of us in case of subclinical infection (2 weeks).  Started one week approximately before transfer.

Retrieved 9 mature eggs + 2 immature eggs, 7 fertilized, 6 survived.

Ratings on day 5:
1.     EBL: C1
2.     BL: B1
3.     EBL: A
4.     Mor: B1
5.     Mor: A
6.     Mor: “?”
7.     Mor: A
Semen analysis for ICSI
2 transferred, 1 blast 4AA and 1 early blast (unrated)

HCG = 38.4 (10 days after transfer).

Bright red spotting 14 days after transfer (HCG =278), miscarriage 22 days after transfer. 
Tested natural killer (normal), DQ Alpha (normal) and MTHFR (positive for heterozygous copy of A1298C mutation).
May 2012
Day 3 FSH 11.1
June 2012
Semi-natural FET cycle attempted.

Ovulated on day 11, doctor not expecting this early, cycle canceled.
July 2012
FET #5: own embryos, 2 transferred, 2x day 5 morulas, A & B1.

Started new protocol of 81mg ASA, 10mg prednisone, 40mg Lovenox at time of transfer. 
500mg Flagyl & Doxycycline for both of us in case of subclinical infection (2 weeks).

HCG 1.8, then declined.
Sept. 2012
FET # 6: own embryos, 2 transferred, early blast with “?” rating and blast rated 3AB.

Changed protocol (81mg ASA, 10mg Prednisone, 40mg Lovenox) starting one week before transfer.

HCG <1.0
Nov. 2012

Tuesday, 6 November 2012

Decisions



I'm still feeling so grateful for the opportunity to talk with Dr. Schoolcraft.  He was kind and easy to talk with.  And I feel like his advice just made sense.  Hallelujah! It's a very different feeling then when I have consulted with Dr. M.  I always left confused, the options he gave always seemed to come out of left-field.   Dr. Schoolcraft said was what I expected to hear.  After the appointment I feel what I hoped I would; realistic optimism.  He clarified a lot of things for us and also validated that we had received conflicting information from past doctors, as our case is not cut and dry.

Dr. Schoolcraft basically offered us an IVF cycle with a 50% chance of success (if we could get one normal blastocyst), or a donor egg cycle with a 60-80% chance of success (depending if 1 or 2 embryos were transferred).   It's a big choice that will have life long implications.  And it's an expensive choice.

It seems crazy to bet the cost of an IVF cycle with CCS and travel costs on possibly one lone embryo.  Or to do a second IVF cycle hoping for another chance with a second embryo.

Part of me thinks we should just go for the "surer bet" to become parents with donor egg.  It could end this special hell of infertility, and make us parents.  We've already adopted and transferred 8 donor embryos in the past.  The genetic connection is something we have thought long and hard about.

However, another part of me just wants a genetic child.  For two reasons.  1. For what I call the "science experiment" part of it; to know what D and I would look like together.  And, 2. I feel like it would be easier.  Easier in the sense that I wouldn't have to explain everything to the child and manage a relationship with a genetic family (I would prefer a semi-open relationship egg donor if possible,  but that's a whole other post in itself).  

It goes without saying for D and I that our love for the child would be the same regardless of how they came into our family.  I just feel the need to say that though, because I'm putting this post out into cyber-land.

After discussing it, I think D and I have decided to go with the IVF route.  We've come this far, and we need closure.  As Dr. Schoolcraft summarized, after the IVF, we'll have a baby or an answer.  And if it doesn't work we will have done the pre-work for a donor egg cycle.






Monday, 5 November 2012

CCRM Consult!



We were on a waiting list for an earlier appointment at CCRM.  And late last week we got the call for a last minute appointment, and we jumped on the opportunity.

I had read some things online about CCRM, and I follow a great blog where the author dealt with CCRM.  (http://lifeandloveinthepetridish.blogspot.ca).   My expectations were high for Dr. Schoolcraft after all of the great things that I had read.  And I am very pleased that he did not disappoint.

I wanted to post what I prepared ahead of time to ask, and how he responded. Warning - this is very long! 

1.      How would you summarize our case?

Someone suggested this as a good question to ask because it would show if the doctor had reviewed our records, as well as anything they had missed.   This way we could be confident in the advice we were given from him.

The Doctor however, started off the conversation by asking us to summarize our case for him.  I liked this because it allowed me to get everything on the table.  I also thought this was smart from his point of view to see what we know and where our gaps of information were with our own case.

2.      Why do you think our previous attempts were unsuccessful?

He said it was probably embryo quality, that people with high FSH and sperm issues likely would make abnormal embryos.  He recommended two things:

1.     IVF with own eggs and sperm – He said our last attempts didn’t “answer as many questions as it created”.  He was impressed with how many eggs I made the last time (11, with 9 fertilized, 6 made it to transfer).   He said to see all of the embryos not work would make us think there is a problem with the uterus or the eggs.   The biggest problem with the eggs would be a chromosomal error.  He suggested CCS (comprehensive chromosomal screening) to see if embryo quality was the issue.   He wanted to take a very thorough look at my uterus, and well have us tested for chromosomal errors with both of us. (Note – we have had this testing I believe it is normal).  He suggested transferring just our normal embryos. 

He said the only downside of this option is money.  Especially, if we could afford 2 cycles. “We’ll get a baby or get an answer”.  We would have closure and resolution to this dilemma.

Later, he said that we could do the one-day workup and use this information for either a donor or own egg cycle.  We can decide this later on.

2.     Donor eggs – He recommended this option if we only had enough funds or emotional energy to do one more cycle or attempt.  He said he would be very positive about the success of donor egg.  But he said with our miscarriage with the donor embryo he wouldn’t want to get tunnel vision, he would want to make sure we weren’t overlooking something on the sperm or the uterus. 

3.     He said that he didn’t think I have an issue carrying.  He said there was no evidence to support thinking I have a problem.  He said he would like to do another HSG to see what my tubes and uterus looked like, as well as blood flow to my uterus.

3.      What do you see as the biggest factor against us (ability to carry, eggs, sperm, other)?

He said you would think the sperm would stand out as the biggest factor to him.  But it he said it doesn’t because his chromosomes are normal and he has plenty of sperm to do ICSI.  With normal chromosomes, it doesn’t usually impact IVF rates.  The FSH of 23.8 is the real outlier, and it occurred 3 years ago.  When FSH is above 10, it is saying that my brain, which makes FSH, is yelling and screaming at the eggs to get them to grow.  And usually that implies they are not such good quality.  That’s the most off-the-radar result.

He said that some people with high FSH still make reasonable numbers of eggs, but the quality is poor.  Unfortunately the quality is at the level of the chromosomes.  So, we would be still be clueless, because on day 5 we could have a beautiful blasts, and still have no idea if it they have the right chromosomes.  

He said that my high FSH is what led my first two doctors to recommend donor egg.  He said that’s pretty dramatic.   They were responding to my eggs/FSH in this recommendation, not my uterus or the sperm.

It doesn’t mean we can’t use my eggs or uterus, it means that what you are at risk for, nobody has checked.  We are at risk for producing chromosomally abnormal embryos.  And we can’t know if that’s happening unless we test them. And if we test them then we know a) all our embryos are abnormal, or b) We’ve got some normal.  If we made another 6 or so embryos and had one or two that were normal, we could just put in the ones that were normal, the ones that have a chance to make a baby. 

He said it’s an option to do IVF, but it’s a risky option. Because with an FSH of 24, there’s a pretty good chance that all of our embryos would be abnormal.  We would have to be ready and willing to go through an IVF cycle knowing that it may work or I may not have any embryos to transfer.  He said if we could do multiple cycles going forward, you could argue, I’d give that a try, and it fails, I could still turn around and try donor egg. 

He said if we are at a point where we can only do one more cycle, emotionally or physically, that we should statistically place that bet on donor egg.

[Note: This was a differing opinion than our current/soon to be previous doctor, Dr. M.   Dr. M said that new research was saying it could be a largely sperm quality issue. He thought my eggs were good, and never mentioned this correlation between FSH and egg quality. ]

Dr. S said that he would do a sperm assay to test the sperm but that it was likely that the egg quality is the overriding issue.

4.      One miscariage was with donor embryos and one was with our own embryos.  What do you suggest is the cause of our miscarriages?

He said that the fact that some of our transfers were with donor embryos definitely “muddies the waters”.  He said that we don’t have enough information to tell what the issue is.   That if we chose IVF, we should do CCS to give us more information.  If all of our embies came back as abnormal then we would have our answer about why our last IVF didn’t work.

5.      Why do you think we had morulas instead of blasts (4 of 6 of our own embryos)?  Why do you think this happened?

He said it’s hard to say. That it could be the eggs or the sperm or the lab.  He said many patients go to their clinic because they have a history of poor blast development and when they go there, they have beautiful blasts.  The lab can have a big influence on the embryo growth. They can grow embryos to day 5 when others can’t. 

[Note: Our current lab did grow the embies to day 5.   Admittedly, I have no way of knowing if they did it in the best way.]

What testing would you do on sperm quality?  We know that count and motility aren’t that relevant because we already have to do ICSI.  It’s really a quality issue.  Am I putting a sperm in an egg that could lead to a healthy embryo?  He recommended two tests 1) a chromosome analysis done on his blood. This would be done on me too.  They would be looking for a translocation.  2) Sperm Chromatin Assay.  This asks the question: so he does have all of the 46 chromosomes in the sperm head.  Are they organized in an orderly fashion or are they starting to fragment and break up?  It’s either called a sperm chromatin assay or DNA fragmentation assay.  He said if the DNA are starting to fragment or break up in the sperm head, it can cause embryo quality to be poor.   He said that if both these tests came back normal, then it would be “all about the egg”. 

As a side note – he would also ask for an APA test as well.  This would make sure we didn’t need a carrier.

6.      Dr. M had a theory that my eggs weren’t maturing properly in my natural cycle.  What are your thoughts on this?

He said that this is likely happening. That people who have high FSH commonly have this problem.

7.      What do you think about the antibiotic protocol we were previously on (two separate times to treat a possible sub-clinical infection 500mg flagyl and doxycycline)?

He said they always administer a low dose antibiotic before starting an IVF cycle.  That he didn’t believe in this high dose antibiotic treatment. 100 mg twice a day for seven days of doxycycline.

He said multiple doses or heavy doses of antibiotics is crazy.

Protocol Recommendations:

1)      What are your recommendations for us?
Didn’t ask because he answered right away.

2)      Can you be specific about protocols etc.?

He said he couldn’t.  I asked if they would be dramatically different than our current Doctor’s?  He said no, that he believed that the major difference was in the quality of the lab.  He also said that they prefer to use estrogen patches.

3)      What do you believe are the chances for us to make embryos, to get a positive test, to have a live birth?
·       He said that he doesn’t know. 
·       That a normal couple our age would get 15 eggs, 7 blasts, 4 would be normal.
·       If we looked at that same person with an FSH with 24, it would be much different.  He said it’s bizarre and awesome that I made 11 eggs.  If I made 11 eggs again, I would be only looking at one normal blast.  Not one blast, but one normal.  He said he would be thrilled with that.  One normal blast in their center would give us 50% chance of a live birth. 
·       With one normal embryo we would transfer it during a frozen cycle so we could have a fresh start with my lining and hormones. He said that estrogen levels can be very high with a fresh cycle and that can be a problem.  Also the CCS would require the embryos to be transferred on day 6, and at this time the lining has already passed it’s optimal point.
o   What protocol would you use?  He said he wouldn’t know until he saw my AMH, follicle count etc.
o   Other considerations?  Didn’t ask.

4)      We have someone who is willing to be a gestational carrier.  What are our chances with a gestational carrier? 

He said he doesn’t see any of our problems as us needing a carrier.  He said a carrier would be for a uterine problem or heart condition or something.  He said I had one HSG where they claimed everything was ok.  He would want to see me to verify this by doing an office hysteroscopy and three-dimensional ultrasound.  They would measure my uterine blood flow.

5)      Chances with an egg donor?
He said it would be around 80% if we transferred two embryos, with one, 60%.   They have the highest donor rates in the world, that donor egg works really well.  

6)      What do you think about the ZIFT method? Is it a suitable option?
He said that this was 20-year old technology.  That it was invasive, it’s general aesthesia, and it’s abdominal surgery. It doesn’t work as well as IVF, and you can’t do genetic testing on the embryos.  We would be back to putting embryos in that we don’t know if they are genetically normal.  His words were to stay away from that guy he’s stuck in the 80s. 

7)      How do you treat MTHFR (heterozygous for A1298C mutation)?
He said that 40% of the population has this.  That it doesn’t cause miscarriage.  It can’t be important because otherwise there would be more miscarriages in the general population.  I reminded him about my sister having a stroke at age 28.  He said that he could run a series of blood tests related to clotting, if for nothing else, but to help rule out future problems.
He said MTHFR is an enzyme and it metabolizes something called homocyctine. If your homocyctine levels are high it can cause blood clotting and lead to complications later in pregnancy in the second and third trimester.  So it is worth checking the homocyctine levels, it’s a cheap and easy test to do. This is to make sure my other normal gene is metabolizing the homocystine levels properly.    If the levels are high, the treatment is just high does of folic acid, typically after a month of high dose folic acid, you repeat the homocystine level, and it will be normal.
The worst case you would take some folic acid. It wouldn’t cause IVF to fail.  It wouldn’t even cause a first trimester loss.  

Follow up question – regarding correlations and concerns because my sister had a stroke.  He said there are things like Factor 2, Factor 5, Protein C, Protein S, Antithrombin 3, he said those are things done on the thrombophilia/blood clotting panel.  He said we could check this for me, if for nothing else, to give me some peace of mind for my long-term health.  He said he could make a list of these tests, that I could get them in Canada, where it would be cheaper for me to get them.

a.      What do you think of the Lovenox, Prednizone and Asprin protocol which I was previously on?  He said he would not recommend it. He said it all voodoo.
b.     Do you prescribe Folgard, why or why not? Only to people that have two copies of the mutation or test positive for other clotting problems.

8)      Do you recommend acupuncture or any other treatments in addition to the prescribed protocol?

He said that if blood flow to the uterus was a problem for me (as determined in my one day work-up), then he would recommend it as it can increase blood flow to the uterus.  He said it wouldn’t hurt me.

Other Eastern medicine recommendations? He said they have a list of supplements that they have that we could try. They will give us the list when we come down for our work up.

9)      Do you recommend CCS  (comprehensive chromosomal screening) for us? Why or why not.
Already answered.

10)     Do you recommend co-culture?
He said he recommends it to people that have very few eggs, and their embryos can’t get to day 3, or didn’t get look well at day 3.  He didn’t think we needed it.

11)     What do you think about DHEA and CoQ10? (Dosages)
He said he wouldn’t argue with that.  We did make 11 eggs, which was shocking for my FSH.  There are no randomized trials that show DHEA works, but there are some retrospective studies that show that it may help.  If that’s how you prepared for the cycle that got you 11 eggs, do it again. He felt I should continue 75mg per day.

He said he would do that too.  He said the only data is on a mouse.  But the mouse data looks pretty exciting, it was out of Toronto.  He said the human equivalent of CoQ10 was 600mg.

Testing:

1)     What other testing would you recommend and why?
This was answered through out our session. He said the nurse would send the comprehensive list of tests.

2)     How could the results of this testing change the protocol you would select?
Didn’t ask.  Answered throughout our meeting.

3)     Dr. M has recommended laproscopy and another hysteroscopy.  I could have this done in Canada for free. 
a.      Do you concur with this line of testing?
No.  He was alarmed at this.  He said that I do not need this.  He said that was really terrible advice.  It’s like having a knee surgery when you don’t have a problem.  You can have one, but you don’t need it.  He said there is nothing he could find with a laproscopy that could change.  He said with your husband’s sperm you need IVF.  You’re not going to get pregnant with an IUI.  And the only reason they do a laproscopy is to help the tube pick up the egg to get pregnant.
He said he would like to repeat my HSG because the results suggest my left tube could be blocked distally.  He said the language they used was kind of vague.  He said it’s ok if the tube is blocked right where it hooks on to the uterus.  But if the tube is blocked near the ovary, then that tube can build up fluid and this fluid can back up into the uterus.  This can keep embryos from succeeding.  A distal tubal blockage would mean that I would need something to be done to that tube.  Either it would need to be ligated or removed to keep the fluid from back washing into the uterus.
b.     Would you accept these results? n/a


Lifestyle:
What do you recommend for lifestyle changes? Specifically in the areas of: caffeine, dairy, alcohol (none?), hormones in meats and dairy, hot tubs.

Before procedure: 1-2 cups of caffeine maximum.  Alcohol is ok in moderation (2-3 drinks per week).  He had nothing to say about the hormones in dairy and meat, he felt it was fine to eat.  He said D should not go in the hot tub at all.  That his sperm count was so low, that it could be make it go to zero.

During – no caffeine is better, but one cup a day is ok if I couldn’t eliminate it.

Timeframes:
How long would it be before we could start each of these options?
We could do our one-day work up within 6 weeks. We could potentially be doing IVF in January.  That donor egg could be longer depending on how long it takes us to select a donor.

Are all of your donors anonymous? Theirs are anonymous.  We would see childhood photos and see everything about them except their phone number and address and name.   There are agencies in the USA that allow known donors where you can sit down and interview them.   He said it is truly our choice.  They are happy to use either agency. The nurse could provide the names of the agencies. 

In terms of a satellite clinic, which would you recommend? How important is the one you select?
 He knows a clinic, RMA of Michigan. He helped out, and they know them well. It’s a very reliable place to deal with.  He said IVF Michigan wouldn’t be his favourite place.  He said that other place told us some funny stuff, that RMA has more competence. 

What do you expect the satellite clinic to do? Not much just a few blood tests, measure follicles and estrogens.  They send the data in and they interpret the data and call us at the end of the night.

How long in Colorado?  Come in on day 7 of stim, and stay until egg retrieval.  So it would be about 5-6 days for me.  Dennis only needs to come on the day of the egg retrieval.  I could go home right after the egg retrieval.  After the egg retrieval, they would be growing the embryos, testing and freezing them. 

He said frozen transfers always are better than fresh because of the genetic testing takes time and the uterus only wants an embryo (really) on day 5.  On day 6, it isn’t as receptive.  Estrogen is 10x normal, the progesterone goes up earlier than normal. Nothing is normal.  Several studies have shown that even without genetic testing, frozen cycles are better.

 More to come on what I think of all of this information!